feat(llm): provider-abstract gateway with cost and failure controls

DeepSeek (OpenAI-compatible) as primary with a 智谱 GLM slot that is a real
routing path but raises until the 算法备案 model list is confirmed. Adds scene
routing, failover, a per-provider circuit breaker, structured output with
retry-on-validation-failure, prompts loaded by id+version from prompts/, and
cost attribution written to ob_ai_call for every attempt -- successes,
retries and failures alike.

Two controls exist because they are cheap now and expensive later: a
cache-prefix validator that rejects timestamps, uuids and nicknames in the
cached system prefix (a volatile prefix silently multiplies input cost), and
a hard platform-wide daily budget that rejects non-critical scenes instead of
merely alerting, since a retry storm outruns any human on-call.

packages/llm/providers/__init__.py

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+"""LLM 供应商适配器。DeepSeek 为主，智谱 GLM 为备。"""